Friday, August 06, 2004
Posted at 02:05 pm by *Kandyz*
Wednesday, May 12, 2004
its been a long time so much has happd we hve lst alot and yet gain nufin.wot is this world made of u gain u lse u mke frenz den dey ignore u wot is this life
so batered so torn so abused *sigh*
*kandy*
Posted at 05:48 pm by *Kandyz*
Saturday, April 17, 2004
to all the people who read this life is too short.
hello out there instead of me forwarding this on i posted it on here so that every singgle person who comes here can pass it on.this way i feel i have done one good thing.Well I hope so!
hope you will enjoy this!!!
One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students
in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name.
Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of
their classmates and write it down.
It took the remainder of the
class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room,
each one handed in the papers.
That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate
sheet of paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that
individual.
On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire
class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant
anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't know others liked me so much." were most
of the comments.
No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they
discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter.
The exercise had
accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one
another. That group of students moved on.
Several years later, one of the students was killed in Viet Nam and his
teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a
serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature.
The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took
a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.
As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to
her. "Were you Mark's math teacher?" he asked. She nodded: "yes." Then he
said: "Mark talked about you a lot."
After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a
luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak
with his teacher.
"We want to show you something," his father said, taking a wallet out of his
pocket. "They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might
recognize it."
Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper
that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher
knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed
all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him.
"Thank you so much for doing that," Mark's mother said. "As you can see,
Mark treasured it."
All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled
rather sheepishly and said, "I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of
my desk at home."
Chuck's wife said, "Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album."
"I have mine too," Marilyn said. "It's in my diary."
Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her
wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. "I carry this
with me at all times," Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she
continued: "I think we all saved our lists."
That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and
for all his friends who would never see him again.
The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will
end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be.
So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and
important. Tell them, before it is too late.
And One Way To Accomplish This Is: send this message on. If you do not
send it, you will have, once again passed up the wonderful opportunity to do
something nice and beautiful.
Remember, you reap what you sow. What you put into the lives of others comes
back into your own.
please by ALL means copy and paste this entry and SEND it to the one who mean something to you!
The more people that you send this to, the better you'll be at reaching out
to those you care about.
May Your Day Be Blessed And As Special As You Are !
*Kandyz*
Posted at 04:01 pm by *Kandyz*
Friday, April 16, 2004
make new friends but keep the old.....
..... one is silver one is gold.
my friends it brings me to this day that i can say i have lost a good friend for ever.i wish i had just been there in zimbabwe.we could've kept our friendship.but boys came between us.all because we liked the same guy.though i do still love that guy.i cant believe it.i just said im in love with him.something is wrong.i wrote an entry on love.but i just proved myself wrong.
i was fighting with two of my friends at school.it killed me inside.ate my insides away.i may have acted as though i didnt care if i was fighting.one day entering the class.i had to watch what i did. never to be stupid.so that they had nothing to say about me.then day by day.few words were spoken." can i borrow your ink earaser?" passed without a word.for some people they would have thought oh what ever its just borrowing some thing.for me it was the first brick and cement to rebuild the friendship we had had.more words were spoken and i was proud.i was making an effort.i was overjoyed being friends with them both. i promised myself. "Please God give me te strength to restrain myself from what has caused this friendship from breakdown"
going to a retreat just made me stronger.i had the will power.thank you Jennie Catherine Jon Joe.
you changed me.
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in unity there is strenght.
whoever wishes harm upon himself will bring a curse upon himself.
self-help is the best help.
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*Kandyz*
Posted at 01:13 pm by *Kandyz*
Thursday, April 15, 2004
im in love and i love him ........
....i think dat is is wot sum one wud say wen they hve gone out wit da 1st guy eva * trust i was like dat and i thnk it was a bit well u knw* well technically speakin how can u hve foun luv if uve only bin out wit jus 1 guy?? the guy i went out wit bck @ hme probably knw wot he was sayin well he told me he luvd me and i belived him duh !! i was head ova heals weneva i saw him.he had gone out wit 2 previous gurls and i guess he wud probably knw wot luv is.i cudnt hve bin in luv coz he was the 1st guy i eva went out wit!! and i guess it was a very strong crush if u put it dat way.im not sayin i neva liked him im saying it was a taste of wot luv cud b if u found the rite guy.im not makin sence am i?? im lost.i hve so much to say but dunno how 2 phrase it. lol. so wot im really sayin is dat u cnt b in luv wen u hvnt gone out wit @ least 2 guys.i think thats it !! and i 4 1 hvnt bin out wit any oda guys i dunno if im sick or wot bt hey gurls jus rememba da 7 B's of life :
Books B4 Boys Becoz Boys Bring Babies!
ps my entry is wot i think if u dnt agree wit it its k jus say so then we hve 2 views 2 da point!
*Kandy*
I Love You |
| by Angel Baby |
I never really knew you
You were just another friend
But when I got to know you,
I let my heart unbend.
I couldn't help past memories
that would only make me cry
I had to forget my first love
and give love another try
So I've fallen in love with you
and I'll never let you go
I love you more than anyone
I just had to let you know
And if you ever wonder why
I don't know what I'll say
But I'll never stop loving you
each and every day
My feelings for you will never change
Just know my feelings are true
Just remember one thing
I Love You! |
Posted at 08:37 am by *Kandyz*
Monday, April 12, 2004
sticks and stones may break my bones but ....
your words will never harm me?? so not true.ok look most of u hve all had ppl calling u names and it doesnt hurt u physically but it does emotionally.imagine sum 1 sayin God 4 bid u live till the nxt day..some of u will jus tell dat person 2 piss off but 4 sum off us that is offensive and i can tell u it hurts rite there in our hearts.i dunno why im writin dis entry but i think i jus wantd 2 seemd like a gud topic.sum ppl will jus say "jus ignore them and blah blah blah" but wen they say stuff bout u which is mean and is not tru it does hurt.occasionally there r dem silly comments which u can brush aside but there cum racist comments and all them otha stuff.imagine sum 1 callin u a f**** blck bastard ?? that is bound to hurt.then cum othas like "omg look @ her she is so fat. i wud kill my self if i lookd like her" i mean this is down rite bitchin and it is TOTALY out of order!!! 2 actually belive its children our age (14) wo r sumtimz like dis.i know we r all wurrid about our looks an all but hey gurls (and sum timz boys) try think of the situation the other is in.
*Kandyz*
Posted at 12:31 pm by *Kandyz*
Wednesday, April 07, 2004
well dis week has bin da best 4 me.on sunday my cuzin and aunt frm scotland came and den on monday we went to london and hamleys wit ma dad cuzin an 2 sistaz we went 2 carnaby street and had sun ittalian lunch the italien r da best.den we went 2 trafalguar squre an piccadilly circus and it was soo much fun wit ma dad coz i neva get 2 spen time wit him cuz he is always out and workin.then tuessday i went 2 lewisham wit ma aunt an cuzin and we went round got sum new male up *yay* and den we had lunch then we visited ma aunt in north london and watched congo *very scary it shows u shud neva b greedy* watched the passion of christ on dvd *very dsad and gruesom and awful but it is da truth* i feel asleep sum of da film so im gonna watch it again.slept at 3 and i cudnt do da paper round so i found in *sick* den 2 day ma cuzin an i went 4 lunch an bowlin it was so much fun xcept im now relly fat !!! bad cuzin treatin me 2 gud lol.so 2 moro we r ither gonna go 2 legoland wit ma lil sista or south london by boat or sumtin lyk dat.well im really havin fun i miss ma otha cuzins i phoned home 2 day.so sad miss them so dearly.well im gonna go now!!!
*Kandy*
Posted at 06:39 pm by *Kandyz*
